[ He crosses his arms over his chest. This isn't going as he'd expected, but now he's put some cards on the table and he's going to keep playing. ]

I don't need a safeword.

[ He drops that so casually. ]

But no, I was thinking the candle would provide a little ambiance. And then we'll go to church and I'll introduce you to my pastor. Can't start a relationship with someone my pastor doesn't approve of.